Saturday, December 11, 2010

Bones of Steel?

I suppose I am still a little in shock from it all, but here is the short version, and I'll follow up with all the details:

Yesterday afternoon while Corey was changing our brake pads, the car rolled forward, the jack slipped out, and Corey's left hand was pinned under the left front wheel. And he is alright. His hand seems fine, except for some surface scrapes and a lot of soreness. There may be some small fractures, but so far, nothing serious. Neither of us have any idea how his bones and flesh were not completely crushed under the weight of the car. It doesn't make any sense at all to two of us that have several semesters of Physics training. But we are grateful beyond words or comprehension that our prayers were heard and answered during those scary minutes of helplessness.


So here is the long version:

Yesterday afternoon, after a week of pre-final exams, Corey decided to take a study break with Zach, and they both headed outside to our driveway and alleyway with their tool boxes to change the brake pads on Corey's Accord, which Corey has done a dozen times. I didn't feel great about him having Zach out there while working, but Zach loves to "fick" things with Daddy, and Corey had only been able to spend an hour or two with Zach all week due to his rigorous study schedule. I stayed inside to take a shower, but got caught up in some computer activities, which was very, very lucky (and every time I say "lucky," I don't meet lucky. I mean divinely inspired, blessed, etc.). Fifteen minutes into it, I heard Corey yell, so I got up to see what was going on. I got outside to see Zach crying hard and Corey pinned under the left front wheel with the entire car tilting onto his left hand. Corey was amazingly calm for the amount of pain I knew he had to be in. I think I would have been screaming and crying. Of course, the first thing I did when I saw the situation was offer a silent plea for help to my Heavenly Father that everything would be alright.

My first thought was that I had to lift the weight of the car off my husband. I had no idea how much of him was being crushed, but I knew it was serious. I've heard the stories of the adrenaline rush of emergency situations giving people super-human strength to do things such as lifting cars off of people (in fact, Corey's grandfather had such an experience which saved the lives of several family members, which you can read about here.), and thought maybe I could do it. So I leaned my nearly-7-month-pregnant mega-muscles into the left front bumper and lifted with all my might a couple of times, which, as you can probably imagine, did absolutely nothing. How disappointing that I am such a weakling!

My next thought was that I had to get ahold of our home teacher, who is a hugely buff Dallas Cowboys football player that doesn't live too far away. But alas, I did not have his number saved in my phone (which I quickly remedied after the incident! Lesson learned: keep your home teachers and a buff body builder on your speed dial!!) Corey told me to get help, but I had no idea whom to call for. Our two next door neighbors are small, single women who are rarely home and probably weaker than I, and I don't know any of our other neighbors and didn't want to waste time pounding down doors. So I ran in the house and called 911 and explained the situation, and the dispatch was made.

This whole time, Zach was extremely traumatized and screaming and crying while I was trying to figure out with Corey what to do. What happened was that our driveway has a very slight incline, and while the driver's side front tire had been jacked up and tire removed, the car had started to shift forward after Corey put some pressure on a bolt. Corey quickly pushed Zach out of the way so the car wouldn't fall on him, and the jack slipped out, pinning Corey's entire hand under the rotor and wheel base. He didn't have his phone with him, and was out there alone with Zach in the alley and the door to the house was shut so that Zach couldn't have gotten in. Even after the fire truck and paramedics came, not one neighbor came out to see what was going on, which makes me think no one was home, (because no one is un-curious enough to not see why an ambulance is in back of their homes, right?) so they wouldn't have heard any cries for help either. If I hadn't been exactly where I was at that time, it could have been quite awhile before Corey got any help, and Zach could have wandered down the alley or in front of a car, or anything, Corey could have passed out, etc. It is just amazing to me still that things worked out the way they did. The situation and outcome could have been so very, very much worse.

Corey, with his clear presence of mind, told me to lower the jack and put it under the car. But I had no idea how the jack worked, and the frame of the car was so very close to the ground that neither of us thought that it could get small enough to fit under the frame. All I could think of was that the car had to be lifted or pried off my husband's hand, which extremity we desperately needed in his chosen profession of chiropractics. I wanted the strength to lift the car. I wanted the wisdom to know how to properly use Corey's tools to elevate the car. But neither came to me at this time. I quickly searched through the house and garage for something strong enough to use as a lever, and only found some weird hunting stand. After the fact, Corey thought this was hilarious and laughed hysterically at me, but it made perfect sense to me at the time.

He was surprisingly calm enough to walk me through the steps of putting the jack and wrench, which were both out of his reach, back together. Thankfully, it was just small enough to fit back under the car, and I used my feminine buffness to raise the car back off of his hand until he could slip it back out. I expected a bloody, crushed, massacred mess--maybe even a stump, because what bones are strong enough to withstand thousands of pounds of metallic force for 5 minutes straight? But there were just a few abraded scrapes. No bones popping out or digits hanging off. It was extremely sore, and took a few minutes until he could really bend all his fingers well. After we were sure nothing was seriously wrong, I called 911 back and told them we no longer needed their assistance. We have crummy insurance, and I didn't want to pay hundreds of dollars for a pat on the back. We were going to take him to the doctor if we felt he needed it. But they said they'd already been dispatched, and since the fire department is only about 1 mile away, we could already hear them coming.

When they arrived, we explained the situation. They carefully examined Corey's hand and encouraged us to still have an xray and exam, warning us that it would probably swell up very badly and he would be in severe pain before long. They had recently had another similar situation, and informed us it did not turn out well. Corey and I were both feeling like watching and waiting was the best thing to do, so we declined any medical treatment. The kind officers did, however, offer to replace the tire--and at no charge! When the fire truck arrived, our crying Zach went up and gave one of the firemen a big hug, which helped console himself. Poor thing! He really was terrified! Afterwards, we put Corey on the couch with an ice pack and Zach made sure he was right there to help with "Daddy's owie."




The firefighters replacing the tire
These marks and a really sore shoulder were my only evidences of trying to help!
Zack offering Corey an ice pack

After the ordeal, we offered a prayer of thanksgiving and gratitude and wonder that things did not turn out any worse, and that Corey's hand was spared. I firmly believe that there was something or someone else holding the weight of that car off of Corey's hand. There is no way that a car can fall on a hand at a sharp edge with such momentum and have the mild result we experienced. Every day I pray for the safety and health of our family members. I sometimes worry about it being a "vain repetition" in my prayers, but I always mean it with the full force of my being, and I know Heavenly Father has heard and answered this prayer on many occasions for members of my entire family. I am so very grateful for the knowledge that the power of prayer is real. This experience has strengthened my faith. I know Heavenly Father watches out for each of us, especially when we are asking for Him to do so.

Thursday, November 18, 2010

Happy 2nd Birthday to Zachary!!

I know this sounds cliche, but I can't believe my baby is turning 2 today! Zachary has brought more joy into our lives than we ever thought imaginable.

I was on my way to Kiddie Kandids the other day to get his birthday pictures taken, and decided to stop and take a few of my own. These ones turned out pretty well, so we did not end up going to Kiddie Kandids. Now I just have to get some prints made (hopefully before his next birthday!).




 Here he is at playgroup last week. He adored this Woody costume, and was so cute in it!
 I know it is hard to see, but Zach thinks he is pretty cool here because he has a toothpick in his mouth like his dad.
This is the day he was born. It is hard to believe how tiny he was!
 Here he is at 3 months.
 6 months
 1 year
 18 months
We look forward to all the many Happy Birthdays to come with this precious boy!

Wednesday, November 10, 2010

Time for Another Haircut

I really have no problem with Zach's curly, golden locks. But Corey gets really irritated when people mistake our beautiful boy for a girl, and decided it was time for another trim. It has been about 6 months since his last haircut, and when it wasn't neatly combed, it would get a little scraggly looking. So I decided to take matters into my own hands (I don't really trust men with scissors. They may do OK with clippers, but very few have the finesse it takes to not turn longer hair into a train wreck!) So I cut off about 1.5-2 inches. it was a little more than I had planned to. I wanted to leave it a little long so that it would have enough room to curl well still. I didn't want it to be a mullet either. But I kind of hacked it, I admit. Maybe I should've taken a picture of the job I did, but I didn't want there to be any evidence of either my poor barbering skills or Zach's semi-bad haircut, so I refrained.
 After a couple of days of being strangely reminded of "Dumb and Dumber," I decided to trim the sides a bit more, and it looks a lot better. It still isn't perfect, maybe, but it's pretty darn cute. I love the heck outta this kid! He's fun to play with and fun to just look at! I am really hoping all the cute curls will be passed along in the gene pool to his baby sister, but we'll just have to see!
 And here is my preggo belly at about 24 weeks. I hardly have any photos of my pregnancy with Zach, so I am chronicling this one a little better, just for kicks. I was surprised to read that I weigh about 4 pounds less at this point in this pregnancy than I did with Zach, which is so weird to me, because I feel a lot bigger. Probably because I have been gorging myself with Halloween candy! But I have been exercising a lot more now than I ever did during my first pregnancy.

Just a little over 3 months to go!

And, speaking of haircuts, I got one today, and Corey is up next. Hopefully we'll be getting some family photos taken before long...

Sunday, October 31, 2010

Trick or Treat!

I guess we started a tradition last year with wearing themed family Halloween costumes. I don't know how long we will continue it, but it has been fun so far. Zach is recently enthralled with the Wizard of Oz, so we purchased used costumes for our ward's Trunk or Treat. Corey wasn't quite as thrilled to be the Tin Man as he was to be a Jedi last year, but he was a good sport for an hour or so! He made some great chili for the cook off also. Zach had a great time, and by the end of the evening, had mastered the phrases, "Trick or treat!" and "Thank you so much!" He even scored a bucket of candy for us to share!
 We were able to visit a couple of pumpkin patches here in Texas this year. This was a really small one at a church near our house. Zach was pumped about the wagon he found and the small pumpkin he was able to haul in it, as you can see!
 The Grapevine Mills outlet mall near our house had trick or treating on Saturday night, so I took Zach there since I didn't think trick or treating on Sunday was the best idea. It was pretty fun, and sure beats going from house to house to house.  I didn't wear my preggo-Dorothy dress there, but kind of wish I would have since there were so many adults dressed up there (as opposed to us being some of the very few adults dressed up at our church activity).

 "RAWR!!"
 Here he is opening a package he received from his Nana. He loved every bit of it--especially the toothbrush!
For our Trunk or Treat, we made this bean bag toss game for the kids, which ending up being a big hit even after we ran out of candy.

 The following photos were taken at the Flower Mound Pumpkin Patch, which is a free event with hay rides, games for the kids, and lots of pumpkins. It was a fun activity for us, and for the rest of the month, Zach kept talking about pumpkin patches whenever he would see a pumpkin.






We had a great October and Halloween, but missed seeing all our friends and nieces and nephews celebrating at our house as we have for the past few years.

Sunday, October 24, 2010

Happy Birthday Corey!

My sweet husband is turning 34 today--WEIRD!!! We used to say things like, "Isn't it going to be weird when we're old and have been married for like 10 years, and then when we're 40?" So, yeah, we're getting closer and closer to those scary numbers (no offense if you're already there!)--YIKES!!

Here is a list of things I absolutely love about my husband, in no particular order:

1. He can fix just about anything. Mechanical, electronic, you break it, he can fix it--95% of the time.

2. Those eyes.... I think they are what first caught my attention.

3. He is extremely patient.

4. He is on time ALL the time- it doesn't matter if he says he'll be there to pick you up, meet you, or whatever. Being late makes him anxious. I don't know how we ended up together. :)

5. He is the world's best father.

6. Tall, dark, and extremely handsome, right?

7. He pitches in to keep things clean around the house.

8. He never complains about changing diapers.

9. He makes DELICIOUS cookies. Have you had one? Yum!

10. He doesn't gossip. Ever.

11. He is so freakin' smart. I won't even tell you his GPA, but it is HIGH!

12. He likes to keep the yard looking nice.

13. He's a super-good kisser. He doesn't do it quite as much since we tied the knot, but he sure used his skills to reel me in!

14. He is an Eagle Scout, and can, therefore, tie any knot necessary, pitch any tent, and all that other outdoor survival stuff.

15. His feet do not stink.

16. He never complains about getting me food or drinks in the night when I am pregnant.

17. He takes me to the temple.

18. He gets my jokes. Mostly.

19. His taste in music is endearing to me--he likes Dr. Hook and Barry White, and other than that, he's pretty normal. :)

20. He is good at sports--I can see him possibly coaching some little league-type teams in the future.

Now, I could do all 34 with ease, but I thought I'd open the floor to any other friends or family members that want to share what they love about this amazing guy.



HAPPY BIRTHDAY COREY!!!!

Wednesday, October 13, 2010

For the Grandparents

Here are some recent videos of Zach for his Grandparents (and other relatives) to watch. He really does some hilarious and clever stuff that I don't always catch on video, but I am trying.

This first one has him saying his letters and the sounds they make. He knows all the letters and most of the sounds, which I just realized today. I know this sounds so braggy but the grandparents get bragging rights too, and it will still be months until he gets to see them, so please don't think I'm a snot!


This next one proves he's all boy. He found a bamboo stick, and it is instantly a sword. At 22 months, he knows this, as well as the sound it makes. I asked Corey if he taught him that sound, and he said he didn't have to, it is inborn in all boys. So there.
And lastly, he started adding the phrase "so much" after saying "thank you." It is so sweet. He said it when I gave him something, and I was lamenting that I wanted him to say it for the camera, so he is here saying, "Thank you so much, Camera."

We love this little pumpkin "so much!"

Sunday, October 10, 2010

More Random Wilhelmsen Moments

I have mentioned previously that Zach is a big fan of Mary Poppins. He especially loves the scene with the cartoon penguins dancing with Bert, and does his best to imitate them. He concentrates pretty carefully and tries to do exactly what they do with their hands and feet. It is so much fun to watch this little dancer! I suggested we put him in a dance class, but Corey is dead-set against it. Oh, well. If he can pick up this much just by watching, he probably doesn't need a class!

 We went on our first picnic at the park near our house. Zach liked it.
The other night Corey, Zach, and I went out to dinner in a shopping center nearby. We had to stop at Crazy 8, a fun children's clothing store, and they were having a summer clearance sale. I got most of these clothes for $2 apiece! I just hope they fit our girl at the right time of year. Since summer lasts so long here in Dallas, I think she should get some good wear out of them.

Here is my belly at 20.5 weeks--just over halfway through the pregnancy! It's not really easy to hide anymore, but no one at work has asked about it yet. Either they are just really polite, or my lab coat and discreet wardrobe choices cover a multitude of pounds! I am feeling her kicks getting stronger each day, and it is so much fun! Some days I am so impatient for her arrival, I can hardly wait! I just need a little baby to cuddle in my arms. Then I remember that this is the last time I'll only have one child (until they're grown), and to enjoy the few moments of solace while they last!

Oh, and about the pregnancy ticker saying "Glycerine," Corey has loved that name for a little girl since about the time he returned from his mission. He says it's perfect because no one else is named that. I think there's a reason you don't hear that name around.: ) I have always thought it would make a good name for a fish, but not a human. So we'll let him pretend her name is Glycerine for awhile, and who knows-- maybe it'll grow on me!!

Monday, October 4, 2010

How Crafty am I?

I have made several trips to the craft store as of late, and decided it was time I made my babies some blankets. I attempted to crochet a blanket for Zach before he was born, but it turned out kind of ugly. This time I bought cute, snugly fabric so my talent is less of a factor in how it turns out. It's been fun so far, but I still have a lot to do. (Can I say BINDING???!) Wanna come help?!



 Aren't these fabrics darling? I am so excited to see what I can make with them!


On Conference Sunday, I made beef brisket with potatoes and carrots, along with a new recipe for homemade rolls, all for the first time. Thankfully, they turned out pretty well! We had some friends from church over to share the meal with and had a lovely time. We need to do that more often!

Conference was, of course, wonderful. There are always such pearls of wisdom shared. We were able to watch almost all of every session, minus a little distraction from Little Z. But he was excited about seeing "the prophet" on the computer. He also repeated the prayer after us for the first time the other night. We have been praying with him for months, but he is finally realizing he can pray too. He also sings "I am a Child of God" and "Follow the Prophet," along with many Nursery songs. He absolutely adores Nursery, and was also enthralled with the Primary Program last week. He loved seeing kids on the stand, and was jamming his head to the music. He's our little sweetie!