Monday, December 29, 2008

Zachary Ammon Wilhelmsen


Yesterday was Zachary's Big Day. We had most of Corey's and my family present for the blessing. We had not decided for sure on a name by the time we arrived at the meetinghouse. Corey had to fill out the paperwork, and when the blessing began, he surprised most of the family with the name Zachary Ammon Wilhelmsen. Corey had been fond of the name Ammon for a first name, but I liked it better as a middle name. Zachary must have liked the name also, because he became very calm and peaceful just before the blessing, after a difficult night and morning. Corey's strong, yet tender, love for both his Father in Heaven and his son here on earth carried the Spirit of the Lord in great abundance to all those present.
Ammon was a great Book of Mormon missionary, whom I hope Zachary will admire and exemplify. One of my favorite scriptures describes the righteous patriot Captian Moroni, for whom our nephew Nicholas is middle-named:

"If all men had been, and were, and ever would be, like unto Moroni, behold the very powers of hell would have been shaken forever; yea the devil would never have power over the hearts of the children of men."

What an amazing man, right? Well, the next verse goes on to say, "Behold, he was a man like unto Ammon. . . for they were all men of God."

So this wonderful scripture describes the characteristics of both Moroni and Ammon, two great men of God. In our family, all of our nephews on both sides of the family likewise bear the names of amazing men of God. Our nephews have the first or middle names of Adam, Hyrum, Joshua, Jacob, Caleb, David, Michael, Nathan, and Spencer Kimball. I only recently realized that all these names reflect those of spiritual giants from biblical, Book of Mormon, and latter day time periods.

I hope and pray these these young men will grow strong in the Gospel of Jesus Christ, as Zachary was blessed to do yesterday, to serve honorable missions, be endowed and sealed in the temple of God, and carry on the righteous traditions of those whose names they bear.




Monday, December 22, 2008

Yo, Ho, Ho and a Bottle of Milk

How can you have a holiday baby and not put him in a Santa suit?! Especially one this cute! I had fun dressing Zach up today as the blizzard raged and neighbor kids played out the window.

MERRY CHRISTMAS FROM THE WILHELMSENS!








Friday, December 19, 2008

Zzzzzz.....

You know my life is dull when the most exciting thing I have to blog about is that Zach slept (mostly) through the night! He finally tuckered out at 1 am, as he does most nights, and didn't awaken until almost 6 am. I fed him, and then he slept until 9:45. We have been struggling so much with not getting more than a 2-3 hour stretch of sleep for the last few weeks. I got really sick the other night due mostly not to getting any rest, so last night was a welcome relief. He's been in his crib in his nursery the last 2 nights. It is hard for us to not have him right by us, but we all rest much better this way. Look how much happier he is when he's well rested- and you should see the smile on my face too! Let's just hope he makes it a habit. When did your babies start sleeping long stretches throguh the night?

Tuesday, December 16, 2008

The Zachary Chronicles- Week Four

For awhile, I kept feeling like I was waiting for this kid's real parents to come pick him up, but I guess they're letting us have him for keeps. I guess it's finally feeling like he really is ours. I suppose the pregnancy hormones and pain and healing clouded my thinking for a few weeks, but it really felt like, "Where did he come from? How long does he plan on staying?" I don't know, it just took some getting used to after over thirty years of not being a parent to realize he's here for good, and I'm on duty 24/7 for the next 18 or so years. It'll be fun, right?!

So today marks 4 weeks. Weird. It feels like I was just in labor yesterday. I think Zachary likes to commemorate his entrance into the world by being wide awake every Tuesday morning at 4am. He wants to relive the experience, or just remind us of when he came, or something. That's what pictures and journals are for, son. He still has sleep struggles. Last night he slept from 1am-4am. That was nice. He's starting to smile more and more, which is a joy. It makes those late nights worth it. He is super strong and always trying to lift his head and upper body. I think he'll follow in his cousin Katie's footsteps and be doing sit-ups by 9 months (or was it 7?).

Another fun thing he does is sleep with his arms sticking straight out in the air, like Superman about to take flight (I didn't quite catch it in the photo). I can barely hold my arms out for 30 seconds before they are too tired to stay up. I guess it's easier when they only weigh a few ounces each!
Corey had 4 days off this weekend and spent every moment with Zach while I was able to rest and run errands. I was gone for several hours a few times, and I missed the baby fiercely. I read this magazine article about a mom going back to work after her baby was born, and I almost cried. I'm sure there will be more tears to come in that arena. . . I now feel so bad for hustling Corey out the door back to work when Zach was only a couple of days old. Corey was fighting it, but didn't have enough paid leave to take much time off. It is mean that hardly anyone offers paid maternity/paternity leave. I would be happy to pay a few more tax dollars to ensure that all new parents each received at least one week of paid leave following their child's birth. It is vital to their emotional and physical well-being. In Canada and much of Europe, parents are given from 6-12 months off paid after a baby's birth. They pay a ton in taxes, but at least it is an aim to helping society. Okay, I'm off my political soapbox.
Happy 4 weeks, Baby!

Saturday, December 13, 2008

29 and Holding- No, Seriously

I'm not so into the "growing old gracefully" and "embracing your age" stuff. I like being young, and don't much care for getting wrinkles, extra pounds, and all the other tokens of advancing age. I just want to remember the good old "Under 30" days and stay there.

In my BYU Biology class, the professor informed us that up the the age of 20, we were building new cells and continually growing and learning. After the age of 20, our cells were basically done growing, and simply awaiting their pre-programmed cell death, or apoptosis. I was so depressed.
So, as I add another year to my age today, I'm going to try not to think about the dying cells or apoptosis. I'm envisioning clear, tight, non-adipose skin- both on my face and elsewhere. . . Isn't this how they tell you to do it in The Secret?


On a brighter note, Corey gave me the best birthday gift ever. He got up with Zach, who had been keeping me up all night with his tiny gurgling, whimpering noises, at 7am and let me sleep for a few blessed hours. It was heaven! Then I came downstairs to a beautiful arrangement of tropical, red Anthurium flowers, reminding me of beautiful Hawaii in this freezing snowstorm.


Tuesday, December 9, 2008

Three Weeks Old

Wow, I knew it was going to be a lot of work, but this is exhausting! I honestly don't know how all you other mothers make it look so easy. Zach is still all over the board as far as sleeping and eating schedules go. I'm starting to hate the nights, because I never know if he'll wake up 45 minutes from when I feed him, or if he'll sleep for 4 hours straight. He does better during the days, sleeping and eating about every 2-3 hours. He is a sweet, darling angel, but my sanity will be much better once we get a little bit of a predictable schedule going. It is possible, right? It is amazing that he is 3 weeks old today. It honestly seems like we were just at the hospital yesterday. Maybe that's because, without a full night's sleep, these weeks just seems like one big, long day!

I love these golden locks!

He's filling out those tiny chicken legs. He weighed 8 lbs 10 oz at 16 days.

Friday, November 28, 2008

Indecision

He really is "The Thinker!" (See post from Sept. 27)

So before anyone goes embroidering his name on a pillow or engraving it in gold, hold up. We're pretty sure on the Zachary part, but with Alexander, the name seems to be too long for such a little boy. So we're rethinking the middle name and aren't 100% sure yet what it will be. Something short and sweet. Hopefully Corey will let me have the name Alexander or Alexandra for a future offspring, because I adore the name and want to carry it on in our family. Naming a baby is a big responsibility. For us, I had to spend a little time with the baby to see what fit best.
Folding his arms for the prayer for Thanksgiving-what a good boy.

He's ready for the mistletoe!

He's finally getting the hang of nursing. Some nights he sleeps well, others, he cries until Corey takes him out of the bassinet and snuggles him on his chest through the night. Zach sleeps great like this, but I don't think Corey is getting the rest he needs. Especially when he had to get up at 4am today for Black Friday at Cabela's. Poor Daddy! But he can't bear to hear Zach cry, so he sacrifices his sleep to make the baby comfy. Nursing him around the clock wears me out, and if he's done eating, burping, being changed, and won't settle down when I rock or walk him, it's Dad's turn. We're still getting the hang of it all. He's as sweet as can be, and we love having him in our home.

Zachary's first bath- he did pretty well!

Saturday, November 22, 2008

I Don't Want to Miss a Thing

Little Zach is changing so much already. Over the course of just four days, he looks so different in these pictures to me.
Sometimes you can see his blonde hair shining in the light, and he looks a little bit like me.
Other times his skin looks warm and red and he looks almost bald.

And sometimes you can see the dark contrast in his skin between the light background and the dark birthmarks that are going away. His face looks really full in this one to me.

He went from 8 pounds down to 7 pounds 4 ounces, and is now close to 8 again.
Hmmm. . . I kind of want him to stay tiny for awhile longer.
I never thought I'd relate my feelings about my son to an Aerosmith song, but these lyrics describe many of my feelings toward Zachary:

"I could stay awake just to hear you breathing
Watch you smile while you are sleeping
While you're far away dreaming

I could spend my life in this sweet surrender
I could stay lost in this moment forever
Every moment spent with you is a moment I treasure

I don't want to close my eyes
I don't want to fall asleep
'Cause I'd miss you baby
And I don't want to miss a thing

'Cause even when I dream of you
The sweetest dream will never do
I'd still miss you baby
And I don't want to miss a thing

Lying close to you feeling your heart beating
And I'm wondering what youre dreaming
Wondering if it's me youre seeing

Then I kiss your eyes
And thank God were together
I just want to stay with you in this moment forever

I don't want to miss one smile
I don't want to miss one kiss
I just want to be with you
Right here with you, just like this

I just want to hold you close
Feel your heart so close to mine
And just stay here in this moment
For all the rest of time

I don't want to close my eyes
I don't want to fall asleep
'Cause I'd miss you baby
And I don't want to miss a thing."


It's already going so fast, and I don't want to miss a second of it.

Son of a Buckeye

Today was our boy's introduction to Ohio State football, against Michigan, no less. We made sure he was sporting some scarlet and gray, and wrapped in an Ohio State blanket. He pretty much snoozed through the game- it was rather dull, wasn't it? At least we had a victory. We are enjoying each day with him, falling more in love with him each moment we spend with him.

"First down!"

Oh yes, everyone is wondering about his name. We finally decided on Zachary Alexander Wilhelmsen. Alexander is my maiden name, and I have always loved it for either a boy or a girl. The meaning of Zachary is "God has Remembered," and Alexander means "Defender of Mankind." It's a good, strong, long name! So now we have things covered from Z to A with him.

He has been smiling a little today, which is a delight. He was up every hour last night and has slept quite a bit today. Time to switch time zones from IUT (Intrauterine Time) to Mountain Daylight, Buddy! His golden locks are probably my favorite thing to gaze at so far. Everyone loves his full, juicy lips and button nose, also.

Tiny mullet- business in front, party in the back!

Thursday, November 20, 2008

Here at Last

Our little bundle of joy finally arrived on Tuesday, November 18, 2008, at 4am!
My labor began at about 4 am on Monday morning, with some cramping that I didn't recognize as regular contractions until I was informed by the nurses at 10 am at the midwives' office as they monitored me. At that point, the contractions were 6 minutes apart and I was dilated 1.5 cm. I reluctantly decided to cancel my patients for the day as the intensity heightened and I realized this must be the real thing. By about noon, I called Corey to come help me get through the ever-intensifying contractions. We utilized some of the techniques learned in our Hypnobirthing class, such as counterpressure, massage, and relaxation techniques. We had our doula, Melissa, come at about 3 pm. She and Corey applied strong pressure to my hips and sacrum during contractions until they were between 3 and 4 minutes apart, at which time I decided the hospital was beckoning.

It was a bumpy ride, and I was having strong pain during the mandatory monitoring. I jumped into the jetted tub there, hoping to relieve the pain, but nothing was helping. I dilated from a 3 to a 5 in about 1.5 hours, and after much internal debate, decided that this was not going to be a great experience for me if I could not have a reprieve from the pain. The angelic anesthetist placed the epidural in the nick of time. We thought the labor would just last a few more hours at the rate I was going, but, of course, everything slowed right down. The next 7 hours passed uneventfully, and finally, after changing positions, things again began to progress quickly from a 7 to pushing time.

After about 40 minutes of pushing, Corey was able to deliver the baby, under the supervision of our midwife. This was special to me to have Corey's hands be the very first placed on our son before he was passed to me.

We were delightfully surprised that my recessive blonde genes won out and, for now at least, he has darling locks of blonde. He came in at a rotund 8 pounds even, and was 19.5 inches long. He looked a little beat up due to the length of the labor, but new parents never mind those marks. My right side took half of Tuesday to wake up, during which time Corey cared for the baby and bonded with him like crazy. Corey is the most doting daddy I have ever seen. It is precious to see how much he adores and is concerned for his son. Baby Tiny just slept snuggled up on his dad's chest most of the day and night Tuesday and Wednesday while I recovered. That's also how they spent half of the night last night. I thought it was the mom who was supposed to lose all the sleep, but I think I've rested more than Dad at this point. The baby has taken awhile to pick up on nursing, but is getting to be a pro now.

He is so tender, and his little cry breaks your heart. He is very alert most the time, and is the sweetest thing we have ever experienced in our lives. We had no idea what it would be like to have him, but now we can't imagine our lives without him. Thanks for all your kind thoughts and well-wishes!

Wednesday, November 12, 2008

One More Day?

If you've been watching our countdown, you'll notice that it says "1 more day" today. I hope it's not lying to us, but statistics show that first babies are often overdue. I would love for him to come tomorrow on the 13th, one month before my birthday, but I'll try and be patient until he's done cookin'. Meadow and the kids are in town, and I would love for them to see their new cousin/nephew before they go back to California. So if you want to pray that he comes on Thursday or Friday, that's allright with me!

On Monday, I had to leave work at lunch due to some intense back discomfort and nausea. I thought it might be labor, but as soon as I relaxed in the tub, I felt fine. At least I know my body is warming up for this upcoming marathon. I'm at work today with a light schedule, and I am not planning on being here tomorrow. If I'm feeling fine next week and haven't had him yet, I will probably still come into work so I can use the maximum amount of my leave time with the baby. I'm feeling a bit heavy and a little uncomfortable, but nothing is unbearable so far. We met with our doula last night and I really like her. She will be a tremendous help and support to Corey and I during the birth. She is there for physical and emotional support, helping with massage, getting us food, helping me adjust positions, and anything else we need. We weren't going to have one, but I am really comforted to know we will have an expert there guiding us through unfamiliar territory.

We are getting excited to meet this little one! We'll keep you posted.

Thursday, November 6, 2008

In the Nursery

The nursery is pretty much finished, so I guess we're ready for the baby! It started out as a dark plum colored room.
We painted teal, beige, and light brown stripes on the wall, which took
Corey, Mike, Missy, and I about a day. We got a matching crib and dresser direct from a manufacturer here for a steal.
We placed vinyl lettering on the wall--it's a tiny bit crooked, but oh well. Corey gave me the rocker/recliner for Mother's Day.

My cute cousin Shelly gave me this darling shelf. She had it painted even cuter colors, but we repainted it to match the room. I couldn't find any bedding I really liked, so I made the curtains and dust ruffle out of one fabric, and the quilt and pillows out of another. I hand-quilted the polka dots on the quilt, and it is reversible with teal on one side and brown dots on the other. We're going to put his name on the sign, and the circles I painted and stuck to the wall.
I would still like to put in a rug, maybe one of these from Bed, Bath, and Beyond.



There is still some room for finishing touches, but we are pleased with the results thus far.