
Our little bundle of joy finally arrived on Tuesday, November 18, 2008, at 4am!

My labor began at about 4 am on Monday morning, with some cramping that I didn't recognize as regular contractions until I was informed by the nurses at 10 am at the midwives' office as they monitored me. At that point, the contractions were 6 minutes apart and I was dilated 1.5 cm. I reluctantly decided to cancel my patients for the day as the intensity heightened and I realized this must be the real thing. By about noon, I called Corey to come help me get through the ever-intensifying contractions. We utilized some of the techniques learned in our Hypnobirthing class, such as counterpressure, massage, and relaxation techniques. We had our doula, Melissa, come at about 3 pm. She and Corey applied strong pressure to my hips and sacrum during contractions until they were between 3 and 4 minutes apart, at which time I decided the hospital was beckoning.
It was a bumpy ride, and I was having strong pain during the mandatory monitoring. I jumped into the jetted tub there, hoping to relieve the pain, but nothing was helping. I dilated from a 3 to a 5 in about 1.5 hours, and after much internal debate, decided that this was not going to be a great experience for me if I could not have a reprieve from the pain. The angelic anesthetist placed the epidural in the nick of time. We thought the labor would just last a few more hours at the rate I was going, but, of course, everything slowed right down. The next 7 hours passed uneventfully, and finally, after changing positions, things again began to progress quickly from a 7 to pushing time.
After about 40 minutes of pushing, Corey was able to deliver the baby, under the supervision of our midwife. This was special to me to have Corey's hands be the very first placed on our son before he was passed to me.

We were delightfully surprised that my recessive blonde genes won out and, for now at least, he has darling locks of blonde.

He came in at a rotund 8 pounds even, and was 19.5 inches long. He looked a little beat up due to the length of the labor, but new parents never mind those marks. My right side took half of Tuesday to wake up, during which time Corey cared for the baby and bonded with him like crazy.

Corey is the most doting daddy I have ever seen. It is precious to see how much he adores and is concerned for his son.

Baby Tiny just slept snuggled up on his dad's chest most of the day and night Tuesday and Wednesday while I recovered. That's also how they spent half of the night last night. I thought it was the mom who was supposed to lose all the sleep, but I think I've rested more than Dad at this point. The baby has taken awhile to pick up on nursing, but is getting to be a pro now.

He is so tender, and his little cry breaks your heart. He is very alert most the time, and is the sweetest thing we have ever experienced in our lives. We had no idea what it would be like to have him, but now we can't imagine our lives without him. Thanks for all your kind thoughts and well-wishes!
