My New Job

I am enjoying my new job as an associate dentist at the office of Steven Titensor, DDS, in Flower Mound, TX. It is a beautiful office, as you can see from the photographs. The aroma of baking cookies fills the air, and we offer our patients comfy blankets, neck pillows, and paraffin hand treatments. Dr. Titensor has been practicing about 25 years and is a master in the fields of cosmetic and general dentistry. I am excited for this opportunity to learn.

I am still in the process of building a busy dental schedule for myself, but as word gets out, I am sure I will be booked solid in no time! It is quite different from the public health dentistry I have been practicing for the past 5 years in Provo. Most of our patients are earning a regular income, or flat-out well-to-do, whereas many of my Mountainlands patients were living in poverty. I do feel like those underserved patients were more grateful for the services I performed and less demanding. I miss using my Spanish, too! I was doing a lot of extractions and root canals on severely decayed teeth, and have not performed anything like that in Texas yet. I felt quite useful in my old practice, as the patients were in great need of dental care. These patients have "high dental IQs," as some would say. They have had insurance and regular dental care most of their lives, for the most part. I do look forward to utilizing skills that I did not have opportunity to use much in Utah, such as crowns, veneers, implants, and other cosmetic procedures.

Our front desk

Our waiting room

Our operatories look like this

If you need some dental work in Texas, come and see me!!

SAHM

So now I know what it's like to be the wife of a graduate student rather than the student. I always felt so out of place in dental school, being in class with all the husbands while all those valiant wives and stay-at-home-moms stitched quilts and scrapbooked and had play dates and talked about potty training and such. I was a little jealous at the time as I studied for my Immunology and Pharmacology exams, and a little not. Now I can start to see why and how they banded together so tightly. It is a wee bit lonely to be a grad student's wife and a mother. Corey arises at 6 am and is gone studying until just before Zach's bedtime most nights. Tonight is the first night (likely of many more to come) he says he will not make it home before Zach goes to bed. I am so proud of him and grateful that he is taking his schooling so seriously. It makes us really appreciate the time we have together.

Zach and I chowing on PB&J sandwiches for lunch

It is different for me to go from working fulltime to only working 2 days a week, and then taking care of Zach single-handedly for the time Corey is at school. I love the time I get to spend with Zach, and hate that I missed so much during that first year (thanks to the rigid stipulations of my student loan repayment contract). But it is exhausting to be his sole source of entertainment, care, comfort, discipline (sort-of), etc. for so much of the time. I seriously do not know how single parents function. I am not complaining- I really can't think of anything I'd rather be doing. (Besides hanging in Maui, of course!) There is honestly nothing better we could be doing with our lives right now than to further Corey's education so that he can take on the role of bread-winner and provider. I'm sure it will fly by and be totally worth it, just like dental school.
But don't be surprised if I start blogging all about potty training and scrapbooking!

And painting. I am "remodeling" our rental house one room per week, so far. Last week it was the guest bathroom, this week it was the living room. I LOVE the deep red I painted it. It instantly made this house feel warm and homey. I will do a future post with all my before and after pictures.

Zachy will occasionally play with my old Cabbage Patch Kid. Corey has tried to throw it out on numerous occasions. He is well-known for taking dolls away from our nephews, and doesn't feel a bit of remorse when the boys cry like girls about their stolen babies. He feels he is doing them a great service by preventing future gender identity issues. Big fat meanie!!

Luckily, Zach has obvious overflowing testosterone levels, as shown in his latest truck-surfing expedition. I don't think Corey has anything to worry about!

White Coats and Such

He looks good in it, doesn't he?! We just enjoyed a fabulous weekend with Corey's parents, who who flew in from blizzard conditions in Idaho to attend his White Coat Ceremony at Parker College of Chiropractic--and to go golfing in the 70 degree weather, of course! We absolutely LOVED having company--it's getting lonely out here already! Zach had a ball with his Nana and Papa nearby, giving him all sorts of attention and snuggles and slipping him treats on the side. My mother-in-law and I painted the town- and our bank accounts- red with all the shopping we did. There are outlets and about 20 TJ Maxx, Ross, and Marshall's stores out here. We had to check on most of them! It was great fun, though, and I plan on taking some trips to the "Return" lines soon.

We also went to the JFK 6th Floor Book Depository Museum in downtown Dallas, where Lee Harvey Oswald is thought to have assassinated the President.....or did he? If you go to the museum, don't spend too much time in the first half. The last half is more intriguing and analyzes the assassination and its accompanying theories/studies. It made us want to watch some JFK movies, but most all of them are rated R. If you know of any good ones that are not R-rated, or can recommend some specific documentaries to watch, I'd love that!

So the white X in the middle lane on the right of the picture is where he was thought to have been shot and killed. Lee Harvey Oswald was believed to have done it from the building on the far left, from the window in the upper right corner, I believe. On the left is the Grassy Knoll, where another shot may have been fired. The area has been preserved and remains largely unchanged from that 22nd of November, 1963. It really is sad and shocking that our President was assassinated in such a manner, especially with his wife right next to him.
This is our 2nd bathroom. I was not fond of the hideous Rainbow Brite wallpaper, and since we were having company, I decided to do a Mini Extreme Makeover on it! I know this is a big no-no, but I heard that removing wallpaper was quite an ordeal, and I only had a few hours before our company was to arrive, so I painted over this ugly stuff with some lovely taupe. I felt a little justified because someone did the same thing in our master bath. Anything is better than that wallpaper! I was quite pleased with the results, which is a good thing, because the paint came in a 5 gallon bucket from the "Oops" shelf at Lowe's! There's enough of it to paint the entire house, but we'll throw a little color on the other walls along with the taupe. I'll post pics of my makeovers as they happen.

The Stars at Night are Big and Bright

Deep in the Heart of Texas!

During the first few years of our marriage, we moved from a tiny apartment on Hansen Avenue in Idaho Falls to the classy El Dorado Apartments in Orem to Grandma's apartments in Provo to our Victorian townhouse in Old Upper Arlington, OH, to our own condo in Columbus, OH, to a house in South Provo on Slate Canyon to our most recent and beloved residence in Pleasant Grove, and now to a rental home in Coppell, TX, just outside of Dallas. That's 8 moves in just over 10 years!! I know it's not a record, but it's a lot of work still the same. We have had so much assistance from friends and family, it's been unbelievable. Moving is a sure test of who your true friends are, I have found. Right by our side during our moves have always been Sam and Tessa, Nick and Meadow, my parents, Missy and Adam, the entire Terry family (Meadow and Adam's family), along with various other family members, friends, and ward members.

So, as you can see, we started out to Texas in a snowstorm. The entire first day of driving was a nightmare. The roads werre snowy and we averaged about 45mph over 10 hours of driving. The next day we sailed through the remaining 700ish miles at about 70mph- NICE! It honestly went by so quickly, and Zach was a peach through the whole thing, thanks in part to my Mary Poppins momma who came along. Due to the holidays, we were unable to schedule the utilities to be connected until just yesterday, so we ended up staying 5 days in a hotel (thanks again to James and Rachelle for Pricelining for us!). It was ridiculous.

When we arrived, a moving party from our new ward was already assembled and helped us unload the truck in 2 hours flat! I am so grateful for the worldwide network of the church and for the selfless, Christlike service of its members. We could not havecompleted any of our moves without that assistance. Luckily, my mom was here to help us unpack many of our things the first few days. It was too cold to be in the house for too long. My sweet old roomate from BYU, Janet, lives here and has brought us food and invited us to her home for dinner with her darling family. It is so nice to already have a friend here!

I actually really like our house. It is a ranch twinhome with 3 bedrooms and 2 bathrooms. It is less than half the size of the 2600 square foot house we left behind, but it is still big enough for the three of us. We wanted the bigger home in Utah so that we could have family stay with us whenever, and that space was well utilized. We don't count on having many frequent visitors here in Texas! It has a few faults, like the ugly linoleum and wallpaper. Plus the walls are a bit colorless compared to what we came from. I can't wait to splash paint around on them! I don't know if we'll mess with the ugly floors or wallpaper, but if we do, I think we could make it quite nice. I doubt Corey will have much time for remodeling with his school, but maybe during the breaks....

Note the unraveled roll of toilet paper accompanied by that mischievous expression.

And that is the lovely linoleum I was referring to.

And then the Buckeye jacket- what an awesome year for OSU!!!

These are mostly pictures from our last going away get-together at Carl's Jr. with my family.

My darling Tressie Girl

My beautiful sister Melissa

My stunning sister-in-law Meadow

Zach is going to miss his doting Grandpa Alexander so much!

And here is Zach at Walmart on New Year's Eve. It was a smashing party with the duck and carousel and all, if you can't tell by Zach's face. Talk about your white trash event!

Coming Together

So we went to Dallas this weekend to see if we could tie up all the loose ends and get everything set for the big move in a few weeks. We really wanted to purchase a small home, because it is a less expensive monthly payment than a rental. Unfortunately, I will not qualify for a loan because I will be paid on a commission. So we found a little tiny rental. It is cute and in a nice neighborhood. It will be even cuter after we add some nice paint and personal touches. There are other upgrades I would like to add, like tile in the bathrooms, but we'll have to see if Corey has any time to do so. It is dirt cheap for the area, so we cannot complain. Hopefully we will be able to save all the money we would've spent on nicer housing and put that toward future housing or business expenses. Things seem to be lining up nicely for my job. Again, it is just kind of a leap of faith. It is different than being guaranteed a set salary. But capitalism allows a much greater income potential than does a set salary. We'll just hope and pray that it pans out.

It was weird celebrating my birthday away from friends and family. Corey was extremely sweet and patient as we drove from one end of Dallas to the other looking for a restaraunt without a 3 hour wait. We settled on Cheesecake Factory. Mmmmm.....Godiva chocolate cheesecake never lets me down! I gave Corey a hard time about not bringing my present. He said that with not checking baggage, there was not enough room in the carry-ons. (There are lots of things that don't take up much space-- keys to a new Lexus, gift certificates, plane tickets to Italy, to name a few!) I guess it's my fault for being so cheap. I have trained him too well!! (Though I doubt he'll make that mistake again!) At least he got me this nice hotel room at the Hyatt.

To be fair, he changed all of Zach's diapers the entire day, which was nice. Poor Zach has been sick for awhile now. He rarely gets ill, but when he does, he makes it count. He's had a fever between 101 and 103 for 3-4 nights now. He has some kind of respiratory infection/sinus infection. He's been as sweet and snuggly as can be, though.

I just had to mention that the other morning in the hotel room, Corey and I were waiting for Zach to wake up after a long, feverish night. We are not usually present when he arises in his bedroom at home, and we usually just go get him when we hear him crying to get out. So we were surprised when, after a few moments of thrashing in the bed, he popped up into sitting position, blinked his eyes, and wide-awake, said, "Huh?", just like he'd been in the middle of the conversation with us. You had to be there, but it was hilarious to Corey and me.

It's Rented!

We just signed a contract with a nice little family to rent out our house for the next year. They are about our age, the wife is an RN, the husband works from home doing loan modifications, etc, and they have 3 cute kids, ages 2, 4 and 6. I hope everything works out with this. It is really hard to let someone take resposibility for one of our most prized and expensive possessions. I really hope they take good care of it.

We will be sad to leave. It is such a wonderful, warm place. We brought our little Zachary home to it, celebrated holidays, and have made countless other memories within these walls. There is nothing to compare this location and view to in Dallas. We will be visiting Dallas next week to look for housing there. Now all I need is my job contract...

Decisions, decisions

WHY am I so hesitant to go forward with our move to Texas?

There are a lot of factors. I do not yet have a firm contract for my job there. Our house is not yet rented out. We do not have a place to live out there yet. Texas is ugly. No offense, but compared to Utah, Idaho, Oregon, Hawaii, etc, it is just plain flat and ugly. I think the main problem is that I have just not truly received an inspired confirmation that Texas is where we should be going. We felt really good about Oregon, but nothing seemed to point that it made any sense to move there. When I say we felt good, hmmmm, I don't know that I could said it was an inspired good, it just was beautiful, close to home, the mountains, and the beach, etc. And I can't say I feel like we shouldn't go to Texas, or should go anywhere else. But it also doen't make any sense to stay here. We are excited to get on with Corey's education. Confusion...

When we were deciding on where to attend dental school, Corey and I were Gospel Doctrine teachers. In the midst of our decision, while preparing for our lesson, we seriously came across a scripture in the Doctrine and Covenants that says, "Go to the Ohio." Answers don't come more straightforward than that!

Why can't we get a similar answer for Texas? (I already checked the Topical Guide and Index- there are no references for either OR or TX!)

November 2009

I have realized that I am just not going to be that person that gets photos printed and put into an album or scrapbook. I have thousands of photos, and I do see them often as my screensaver, but I am going to try to post a few more photos on this blog to share with firends and family. Someday, maybe I'll even have these blog entries bound into a book or something. So here are some photos chronicling Zach's first birthday party and other November events.


Corey's parents came down the weekend before Zach's birthday and we went on a shopping spree to Toys R Us. Zach had an absolute hayday. It made me realize that we don't get out much. He loved this big T-rex, as well as the blue truck, which we ended up getting him. He really loved all his gifts and has been excited to play with each one of them this week.


We had a Mexican Fiesta theme, enjoying delicious tostadas and a pinata filled with candy and toys. He really liked pulling the tissue paper off the pinata and putting it in his mouth. Adam Jack was appaled that we were "breaking the horsie!"


I made this lovely cake, as well as cupcakes that everyone had the chance to decorate. Zach first just started mushing the cupcake and frosting in his hand. Finally, I had to stick some in his mouth, and then he just kept shoveling it in!! He has never had anything so sugary before, and he loved it!!

He has started pushing objects up to the couch and TV so he can better reach and climb and get into trouble.

Zach and his Aunt Erica

Have you ever seen such a cute dad? He often dresses Zach in clothes that match his own.

They are best buds while I am away at work.

Corey hiked Zach's pants way up.

He loved playing in these gloves. The look on his face is angelic!

I was shocked to find this picture on the camera. Corey threatens me if I dare suggest putting bows on my beautiful boy. Apparently, Zack put this one on himself for the photo op while Corey was watching him!! He would make a cute girl, right?! (Don't tell Corey I said that!)

Zach has learned to climb into the toy chest...

but has trouble getting back out!

And lastly, here is the sunset out the back door last night. I am certainly going to miss this place. We put it up for rent a couple of weeks ago. We have one family that is particularly interested, but nothing is certain yet. I got my Texas dental license, but am patiently waiting for a contract to sign so we can look more seriously for housing. It is a frustrating process. We are planning on moving between Christmas and New Years so Corey can begin the semester in January. Nothing is exactly solid yet, so it doesn't seem quite real. I don't want to harass my new boss, but I am getting a little impatient. We'll keep everyone posted once we make definitive plans.

Zachary's First Birthday

I LOVE this kid! Little did I know one year ago that I could adore something that keeps me up all night!! Zachary has been such a blessing in our lives. The first few months were a little difficult as we tried to figure out what he wanted and needed. He struggled with learning to eat properly, and has only recently grasped the concept of sleeping for long stretches in the night. Once he learned to smile, he never stopped! He is constantly smiling and laughing, and has a genuinely sweet disposition. Zach has always been a go-er. He was doing sit ups at just a couple months old. Then came rolling over and crawling. He's been walking since 10 months, and is now starting to climb upwards- YIKES!!! We have treasured every moment we have with this little angel, and look forward to watching him continue to learn and grow.

Where is Halloween?

Halloween is so much more fun with a little one to dress up. We found this little Yoda costume for Zach, so decided to go with the Star Wars theme this year. Corey was a Jedi, and I wrapped my hair in buns and went as Princess Leia. We won the prize for Best Costumes at the ward party, which was a lot of fun. I'm wishing I would've taken Zach trick-or-treating to a lot more houses, because our candy got entirely cleaned out! He was a sweet little Yoda, waddling around just like the real Jedi!

We also had our first real family photographs on Halloween day. I was really excited to capture the autumn colors, and I think they delivered. These are just a few shots that Corey and I got of each other. I wish we would have brought someone else with us to snap one of all of us, because I'm sure the ones the "Pros" took are not going to be cheap! Can anyone photoshop these and combine the two?!